2017, advice, Alabama, attitude, believe, Bible, calling, childhood, choice, Christ, college, communication, compare, comparing, comparison, conviction, daughter, decisions, expectation, faith, family, glory, God, God's creation, happy, jealous, jealousy, oldest child, parents, people, perspective, relationship, rivalry, sibling, sister, wedding

What I Learned From Fighting with My Sister

As the oldest child, for almost four glorious years I had my parents all to myself. Everything revolved around little Kaci, which I now know wasn’t such a good thing. Then, something shifted in my universe when my mom brought home a new baby girl. The rest of my adolescence was defined by a love-hate relationship with this new family…

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2017, attitude, believe, expectation, faith, His way, Isaiah 55:8, job, question, spoiled, spoiled brat, testimony, tuscaloosa, university, university of alabama, work, workout, write, young adult

The First Day of the Rest of My Life

We’ve all had those moments in life where something happens that will forever change us, whether for better or worse. April 1, 2006, was one of those days for me, and even more than a decade later I can remember everything as if it were yesterday. But it was the choice I made in response to those events that would…

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2017, parenthood, parenting, parents, perfect, pride, proverb, proverbs 31, rolling stones, trump, You can't always get what you want

You Can’t Always Get What You Want

Donald Trump is perhaps the most controversial president to date, and he knows that many people don’t like him. That’s why it was interesting and amusing when he chose to play The Rolling Stones‘ “You Can’t Always Get What You Want” as his theme song. I’ve always liked this song (and most Rolling Stones songs), but during the election I really started…

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2017, actions, apologetics, belief, believe, Bible, Christ, Christian, faith, God, Jesus, John 3:16, love, people, relationship, religion, responsibility, social, social media, twitter, Uncategorized, webster, witness

Unapologetically Christian

For a while I worked in Christian publishing. During that time I took a few seminary courses online, and one of them was Apologetics. This class intrigued me most, because it went over the various biblical ways we can use to defend our religion. It’s important to know enough facts to back up what you believe in and to have…

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2016, America, choice, Christian, church, clinton, college, conservative, conviction, country, democrat, election, hillary, history, king, leader, liberal, november, president, trump, united states, women

Trump for Minorites

It’s November 9, and we can rest a little now, knowing that the craziest election in history has ended. My husband said it best a few weeks back when he commented that an entire history book or college course could be dedicated to this election alone. Trump won, and the Republicans pretty much swept the map in all areas. No…

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2016, actions, addition, anorexia, Anorexia Athletica, book, change, dying to be thin, eating disorder, help, recover, recovery, stigma

Facing The Stigmas Associated With Eating Disorders

If you regularly read my blog or know me personally, you know I have a heart for those battling eating disorders. I once battled one myself, which of course led me to write a memoir, Dying to Be Thin. There are many misconceptions about eating disorders, and Michelle Peterson of RecoveryPride.org has written an informative article about more issues that people with eating disorders may…

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2016, abundance, Bible, career, God, humble, humility, job, money, proverb, Proverbs 22:4, trust

Don’t Stress . . . It’s Just Money

I’m pretty happy with my life these days. So happy, that I would say I didn’t know I wanted anything more until it was dangled in front of my face. Kind of like how you don’t know you want a new car until your next door neighbor drives home in one and invites you over to admire all the cool features. This…

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2016, Bible, choices, Christ, Christian, church, church girl, comedy, compare, comparing, comparison, crazy, decisions, expectation, women

Quit Hiding Your Crazy

This past weekend I attended a Lifeway Women’s event called dotMom for the third time. It was awesome. It always has been, and we always leave feeling refreshed. On the way home, our leader/van driver asked us to all share our favorite part of the weekend. Just like others, I had several defining moments. Yet what honestly helped me the most was…

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