2017, actions, apologetics, belief, believe, Bible, Christ, Christian, faith, God, Jesus, John 3:16, love, people, relationship, religion, responsibility, social, social media, twitter, Uncategorized, webster, witness

Unapologetically Christian

For a while I worked in Christian publishing. During that time I took a few seminary courses online, and one of them was Apologetics. This class intrigued me most, because it went over the various biblical ways we can use to defend our religion. It’s important to know enough facts to back up what you believe in and to have…

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2016, actions, addition, anorexia, Anorexia Athletica, book, change, dying to be thin, eating disorder, help, recover, recovery, stigma

Facing The Stigmas Associated With Eating Disorders

If you regularly read my blog or know me personally, you know I have a heart for those battling eating disorders. I once battled one myself, which of course led me to write a memoir, Dying to Be Thin. There are many misconceptions about eating disorders, and Michelle Peterson of RecoveryPride.org has written an informative article about more issues that people with eating disorders may…

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2016, actions, advice, attitude, believe, Bible, calling, change, Christ, Christian, corithians, Emmitt smith, goal, goals, God, happy, joni, life, Pat Smith, pray, prayer, purpose, table talk, talent, testimony, Uncategorized

OK God, What Am I Here For?

Regardless of your race, gender, age, location, personality, occupation, NCAA allegiance, or any other defining factor, all Christians have one thing in common. We want to know why God put us on this Earth. Of course the short and always right answer would be to spread His Word and help others. That above all else is why and what we…

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2015, abundance, actions, bell ringers, Bible, birmingham, blessed, blessing, book, care, charity, Christian, church, closet, clothes, community, food, fulfill, gifts, give, greed, help, helping others, holiday, holidays, hospice of west alabama, husband, illness, kids, kindness, love, Love inc, magazine, matthew 6, mentor, money, needs of others, people, quality time, south, southern hospitality, stuff, take them a meal, the salvation army, the well house, time, ttown, tuscaloosa, values, values.com, wings, Women involved in God's Service, worry

Giving Out of Your Abundance

With the holidays now in full swing, everyone is focusing on giving. I personally think giving should be an ongoing attitude that lasts all year, but even the stingiest of people seem to give at the year’s end (even if it’s more for a tax write off than charity). If you’re like me, you might feel guilty every time you…

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Forgiving My Father

You never forget receiving shocking news, and the details of the day often stick with you as clearly as the news itself. I distinctly remember standing in the park, watching my boyfriend (now husband) play baseball. My walkie-talkie sized Nokia rang and a funny number showed up. I answered it and listened intently at the biggest surprise of my life.…

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Duggars or Kardashians, We All Have Problems

I have never watched the Duggar family’s show 19 Kids and Counting, but like anyone else who hasn’t been unconscience the last five years I know about the family. I do however watch The Kelly File on a fairly regular basis and caught her interview with two of the eldest Duggar sisters. From what I gathered, the worst part about…

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2015, actions, adolescent, America, anger, apartment, car, church, compare, comparing, comparison, feelings, friends, goals, greed, house, jealous, jealousy, Jonathan taylor thomas, JTT, lust, mansion, mcmansion, Michael Snyder, money, new, parents, relationship, shack, social media, sports car, wealth, wealthy, worry, write

The Curse of Comparison

When I was a young girl we played a game called MASH, which was a clever adolescent acroynym for Mansion, Apartment, Shack or House. There were other options too, like your job, spouse, car, number of children, etc. You concentrated on when to stay “stop” as your buddy drew a spiral on the piece of paper. Then the lines were…

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2015, actions, America, belief, Bible, Blaine Adamson, Christian, church, conservative, conviction, easter, family, friends, friendships, gay, gay marriage, God, God's creation, help, helping others, human being, Jesus, kentucky, love, marriage, marry, relationship, south, southern

Real Christianity

This Sunday churches across America will have pews running over as “people come out of the woodworks” (as we say in the South) for Easter. I admit to sometimes feeling a little aggravated at the fact that many people only show up out of some conscience obligation that tells them “that’s what you do on Easter Sunday” (or at least…

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Conservative Carpe Diem

Carpe Diem: Sieze the day! We’ve all heard it, said it, and read it. It’s known as living in the moment, worrying only about the day, etc. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary describes it as “the enjoyment of the pleasures of the moment without concern for the future.” Even the Bible instructs us to “not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry…

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Never Say God Can’t Use You

I spent a good bit of my 20s trying to figure out the best way to make an influence, help others, and make a difference for God. Wanting to find your “calling” (as many people call it) is an honorable pursuit, yet we should not stress ourselves over it. After wasting a lot of time worrying and trying out different…

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