2017, advice, Alabama, attitude, believe, Bible, calling, childhood, choice, Christ, college, communication, compare, comparing, comparison, conviction, daughter, decisions, expectation, faith, family, glory, God, God's creation, happy, jealous, jealousy, oldest child, parents, people, perspective, relationship, rivalry, sibling, sister, wedding

What I Learned From Fighting with My Sister

As the oldest child, for almost four glorious years I had my parents all to myself. Everything revolved around little Kaci, which I now know wasn’t such a good thing. Then, something shifted in my universe when my mom brought home a new baby girl. The rest of my adolescence was defined by a love-hate relationship with this new family…

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2016, Bible, calling, Christian, church, communication, community, compare, comparing, comparison, complain, envy, gifts, give, God, grandparents, granny, help, helping others, jealousy, lifeway, regift, spiritual gift, Uncategorized

Have You Used Your CHRISTmas Gifts?

Now that Christmas is over, we are left with extra pounds, unplugged lights that need taken down, and tons of gifts. Some gifts we love, some not so much. Some gifts we never use or even open, and others we regift. We even envy the gifts of others. (Why did my sister get those cute, warm pajama pants while I…

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2015, anorexia, Anorexia Athletica, athlete, blonde vegan, compare, comparing, comparison, craving, diet mountain dew, discipline, dying to be thin, eating disorder, eating patterns, exercise, family, food, food blogger, fried, friends, hangup, help, ice cream, instagram, jealous, jealousy, macro, magazine, muscle, obsess, obsession, Orthorexia Nervosa, people, rachel ray, restrict, self, snob, social media, south, southern, stress, stuff, testimony, two, Uncategorized, vegan, workout, worry

Saving Myself from Food Snobbery

As if working out intensely for five days a week and wearing a size 2 was not good enough, I was determined to “get ripped.” I had finally overcome my fear of the scale and felt content with weighing an average of 7 more pounds since before I got pregnant with my son a few years ago. I looked smaller,…

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2015, actions, adolescent, America, anger, apartment, car, church, compare, comparing, comparison, feelings, friends, goals, greed, house, jealous, jealousy, Jonathan taylor thomas, JTT, lust, mansion, mcmansion, Michael Snyder, money, new, parents, relationship, shack, social media, sports car, wealth, wealthy, worry, write

The Curse of Comparison

When I was a young girl we played a game called MASH, which was a clever adolescent acroynym for Mansion, Apartment, Shack or House. There were other options too, like your job, spouse, car, number of children, etc. You concentrated on when to stay “stop” as your buddy drew a spiral on the piece of paper. Then the lines were…

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