2017, attitude, believe, expectation, faith, His way, Isaiah 55:8, job, question, spoiled, spoiled brat, testimony, tuscaloosa, university, university of alabama, work, workout, write, young adult

The First Day of the Rest of My Life

We’ve all had those moments in life where something happens that will forever change us, whether for better or worse. April 1, 2006, was one of those days for me, and even more than a decade later I can remember everything as if it were yesterday. But it was the choice I made in response to those events that would…

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2017, parenthood, parenting, parents, perfect, pride, proverb, proverbs 31, rolling stones, trump, You can't always get what you want

You Can’t Always Get What You Want

Donald Trump is perhaps the most controversial president to date, and he knows that many people don’t like him. That’s why it was interesting and amusing when he chose to play The Rolling Stones‘ “You Can’t Always Get What You Want” as his theme song. I’ve always liked this song (and most Rolling Stones songs), but during the election I really started…

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2016, ABC's, advice, blessed, blessing, boundaries, change, Christian, college, communication, compromise, counseling, exercise, expectation, forgive, friends, honesty, husband, Jesus, kindness, love, love languages, marriage, marry, memories, money, money management, patience, people, quality time, relationship, relax, respect, struggle, time, tragedy, Uncategorized, vacation, workout, young adult

The ABCs that Saved My Marriage

With my younger cousin’s wedding and our church’s marriage retreat both falling on this weekend, I’ve thought a lot recently about marriage. I feel that my husband and I have a good marriage, but it’s not by luck or happenstance. We had to work at it just like anything else in life that you want to see succeed. So many…

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2015, Bible, birth, car, Christian, church, community, compare, comparison, complain, dream, expectation, family, friends, friendships, fulfill, fulfillment, goals, God, greed, guys, happy, helping others, hole, house, house for sale, jealous, job, joy, kids, land, love, marriage, meet our needs, money, people, pray, quality time, relationship, service, shape, stand up, stuff, thankful, Uncategorized, wealth, worry

Finding Fulfillment in Life

I can honestly say I’m at one of the happiest times in my life, and it has nothing to do with what’s going on around me. Sure, I’m about to have my second child to complete our family, my stand-up and writing careers are getting recognition, and I have a great support system of family and friends. But I give…

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2015, advice, advisor, american greed, Bible, car, college, family, friends, friendships, give, goals, greed, help, house, job, magazine, malachi, marriage, mentor, money, money management, parenting, parents, patience, people, relationship, save, sheldon cooper, spend, student, tithe, Uncategorized, university of alabama, write, young adult

What Every College Graduate Should Know

Graduating college is an exciting time, filled with mixed emotions of freedom and responsibility. It’s been 10 years since I walked across that stage at The University of Alabama, and I wish I knew then what I do now. Hopefully these practical nuggets will help recent grads. 1-Don’t Expect Overnight Success. Even if you are fortunate enough to land a…

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What Makes A Mother?

Despite having a son for two and a half years, it still catches me off guard when someone wishes me “Happy Mother’s Day.” Maybe it’s because until I had my son, I wasn’t even sure if I wanted to be a mother. Or maybe it’s because since he’s so young I feel like I have not yet earned the right…

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2015, 700 club, actions, calling, cbn, Chris baker, Christian, church, creator, eating disorder, facebook, gang, gifts, goals, God, God's creation, graffiti, happy, help, helping others, human being, human trafficking, ink, ink 180, job, kindness, meet our needs, needs of others, passions, physical, prayer, prostitution, seminary, service, stand up, stress, tattoo, tattoo artist, tragedy, Uncategorized, witness, worry, worship, write

Never Say God Can’t Use You

I spent a good bit of my 20s trying to figure out the best way to make an influence, help others, and make a difference for God. Wanting to find your “calling” (as many people call it) is an honorable pursuit, yet we should not stress ourselves over it. After wasting a lot of time worrying and trying out different…

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2015, actions, Alabama, Alabama snow, car, complain, Detroit, Ford, Good Samaritan, happy, help, helping others, James Robertson, job, kindness, Luke 10, needs of others, service, snow, thankful, Uncategorized

Next Time You’re Complaining, Read This . . .

I recently received a Fitbit® Flex™ (Thanks, Blake!), and despite working out five days a week and constantly picking up after a toddler and dachshund have yet to hit 10,000 steps a day. Some people have less sedentary jobs and easily hit 10,000 steps a day, but one man puts in more steps on his commute than possibly all day…

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2015, church, exercise, friends, God, God's creation, human being, Lazarus sisters, Mary and Martha, mind, Monic, Monica, relax, toddler, young mom

To Be or To Do: That is the Question

Anyone who knows me well would probably describe me as hyper or active. Some may even call me “busy.” I work a lot and I have a small child, but I know many more people who have multiple children and work jobs much less flexible than mine. The truth is that the source of my busyness (or looking busy) is…

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